Lighting up hearts: My Diwali expertise with a household in India

I admit – considerably sheepishly – that I didn’t know all that a lot about Diwali earlier than my Ladies’s Expedition with Intrepid. As a traveller in India for the primary time, I had no concept what to anticipate. 

India is a magic place to go to any time of yr, however Diwali is one thing else. I discovered everybody to be in a shiny temper. Streets sparkled with strings of lights, fireworks lit up the sky with color, and markets have been crammed with mouth-watering sweets, orange marigold garlands, large stalks of contemporary sugar cane, and piles of small clay pots known as diyas. Our journey chief, Anjali, defined that this conventional oil lamp gave Diwali its namesake. 

Celebrated in India and a number of other international locations all through the world, Diwali is noticed by greater than a billion individuals of Hindu, Jain, Sikh and Buddhist faiths. This five-day competition marks the start of a brand new yr and celebrates the triumph of excellent over evil and light-weight over darkness.  

As our group travelled round Rajasthan – a area famend for its palaces, maharajas and festivals – within the days main as much as the competition’s fundamental occasion, we had the chance to find out about varied Diwali traditions.

We obtained to assist create a rangoli, an intricate ornament made with colored sand to adorn the ground of an entranceway. It was a delight to be taught from some younger Indian ladies who drew a fairly peacock design for us to fill in – even when it did check my hip flexibility and artwork abilities. We have been additionally handled to a session with a henna artist, who painted our arms in stunning designs. 

I realized that in addition to a celebration of lights, this competition is a time of religion, household and feasts. Behind the scenes, households put together for Diwali by cleansing their houses and shopping for new garments and jewelry. 

I didn’t simply expertise the competition of lights on the streets. My most memorable expertise was celebrating Diwali with an Indian household of their residence. I got here away with a deeper understanding of Diwali and the tradition and spirit of the nation’s individuals. 

Meals is a severe enterprise for the senses in India. Tasting new dishes was excessive on my record of causes for visiting this nation. I used to be excited that our itinerary included a cooking demonstration the place we might be taught recipes from a neighborhood chef of their residence and revel in a vegetarian meal collectively. 

Having witnessed how a lot preparation goes into Diwali and the significance of being with family members throughout this competition, it was so beneficiant of this household to welcome us into their residence. Not for the primary time on this journey, I used to be reminded that hospitality is an element and parcel of life in India. 

Our hosts, Divyashree and Saurabh, greeted us with a tilak: a small marking on the brow made with crimson paste and grains of rice that has many significances within the nation, together with a greeting for company. We supplied them sweets. 

Instantly, we may really feel Diwali throughout us. Our hosts had adorned their yard with strings of white, purple and inexperienced lights, and the complete neighbourhood gave the impression to be setting off firecrackers.  

Not for the primary time on this journey, I used to be reminded that hospitality is an element and parcel of life in India. 

Divyashree defined their household are Pushkarna Brahmin and comply with a vegetarian weight loss plan that doesn’t embrace any onion or garlic. So, for our meal, we’d be studying learn how to prepare dinner conventional Brahmin dishes with spices and elements that is perhaps new to us. 

I used to be launched to asafoetida, a pungent alternative for onion. A fruity mango powder known as amchoor. Kalonji, that are black nigella seeds. And chaat masala, which is a medley of spices that our hosts informed me you’ll be able to eat with the whole lot. I later picked up some chaat masala on the market to see for myself as soon as I returned residence, and it’s true. 

Through the lesson, we have been invited to roll up our sleeves to assist fry pakora dumplings and roll the dough for poori – a fried bread that puffs up right into a ball when positioned into sizzling oil. It was lots of enjoyable to look at. 

Whereas our group was targeted on the meals, extra members of the family arrived, bearing sweets and trays of burning diyas. Anjali informed us this was the true spirit of Diwali. Saurabh invited us to affix the household in taking a diya across the yard. ‘Wherever there’s darkish, put a lightweight,’ he mentioned.  

Surrounded by the glow of sunshine and the heat of our hosts, we have been seated to get pleasure from our Diwali dinner. The couple ready a silver thali plate for everybody with mouth-watering dishes like mango launii, bharwa bhindi and jeera aloo. It was by far probably the most scrumptious meal we had throughout the journey. Divyashree even gifted her recipes to us in a booklet to take residence.

As a lot as I loved making and consuming the meals, the enjoyment of our night got here from the corporate and dialog. It got here from the household who welcomed us into their residence, the journey companions who had turn into my new buddies and Anjali, who was so beneficiant with answering our questions on Diwali. I need to return to India, however this felt like a once-in-a-lifetime expertise, and I’m grateful to everybody who made it particular. 

With fireworks popping throughout me, I left our Diwali dinner feeling full in my stomach and my coronary heart.